modern romance by aziz ansari and eric klinenberg

Today, people marry later than ever and spend years of their lives on a quest to find the perfect person, a soul mate.įor years, Aziz Ansari has been aiming his comic insight at modern romance, but for Modern Romance, the book, he decided he needed to take things to another level. Their families would meet and, after deciding neither party seemed like a murderer, they would get married and soon have a kid, all by the time they were twenty-four. In a short period of time, the whole culture of finding love has changed dramatically.Ī few decades ago, people would find a decent person who lived in their neighborhood.

Who’s Nathan? Did he just send her a photo of his penis? Should I check just to be sure?īut the transformation of our romantic lives can’t be explained by technology alone. Why did this guy just text me an emoji of a pizza? Should I go out with this girl even though she listed Combos as one of her favorite snack foods? Combos?! My girlfriend just got a message from some dude named Nathan. Some of our problems are unique to our time. With technology, our abilities to connect with and sort through these options are staggering. Single people today have more romantic options than at any point in human history. His seems standard now, but it’s wildly different from what people did even just decades ago. We meet people, date, get into and out of relationships, all with the hope of finding someone with whom we share a deep connection. A hilarious, thoughtful, and in-depth exploration of the pleasures and perils of modern romance from one of this generation’s sharpest comedic voicesĪt some point, every one of us embarks on a journey to find love.

Modern romance by aziz ansari and eric klinenberg